Your experience bongoing with a 3-6 months baby ?
Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2014 8:00 pm
Hi all,
I read most of the threads of the "Bongoing with Children" section and got some answers and reassurance, but I'd still like to hear about your experience going away with a small baby, even for just one night.
We have had our Bongo for 4 years now, and we love it, but we are expecting a baby for end of February and I thought "That's it! We'll never use it next year - probably not until the child is 3 years old and can sleep upstairs, maybe we should just sell it."
To be honest, we have gone away only twice this summer, and we have no excuses really ("we can go whenever we want, we don't need to plan" doesn't result in more travelling). So paying tax+insurance+servicing for no night out at all next year seemed just too much to me.
Our bongo was converted when we bought it: one row of seat taken out in the middle to place the little cupboard/gas cooker/sink, and we still have the original back row of seat.
We always slept upstairs, and it's great, except for the "if one needs to get up, everybody has to get up", which is ok when it might only mean the occasionally "I really need to go to the bathroom" trip in the middle of the night.
Now, I thought about going away with a baby (if we go between May and September, he/she will be 3-6 months), I am first wondering where will she/he sleep.
The first options are: back seat downstairs with moses basket? Travel cot downstairs? Yes, but what happens if baby is still feeding at night? Is it practical? Temperature issue? Experience?
Or baby could sleep upstairs with me so I can feed without a fuss? But where would my husband sleep? In a tent? That doesn't seem very practical for one night.
Obviously, it will depend of the baby, and we won't know until we get to that time... And it might be too late to sell the Bongo? Best is probably spring no? Or after the summer?
When the baby gets older, I imagine he/she can sleep all night and there is no more problem for sleeping downstairs.
Of course, I am also wondering whether all this will be any fun for any of us. If the trip is only stressful, then why do it in the first place? The baby is too young to really get the benefit (different with an older child)... so we have to be the one enjoying the night away.
Your experience is valuable to me. I am thinking "Sell and we'll see in 3-4 years if we want to buy something else." but we like our Bongo, and I like going away in it and my husband too. I'd love to be able to take the minimum with us and be relaxed and go away for a few weekends next summer, but I am afraid this is unrealistic
Also, last question, I've read about a "Cat flap" for the bongo, but can't find any picture or description of what it means.
Thank you and sorry for the long message!
I read most of the threads of the "Bongoing with Children" section and got some answers and reassurance, but I'd still like to hear about your experience going away with a small baby, even for just one night.
We have had our Bongo for 4 years now, and we love it, but we are expecting a baby for end of February and I thought "That's it! We'll never use it next year - probably not until the child is 3 years old and can sleep upstairs, maybe we should just sell it."
To be honest, we have gone away only twice this summer, and we have no excuses really ("we can go whenever we want, we don't need to plan" doesn't result in more travelling). So paying tax+insurance+servicing for no night out at all next year seemed just too much to me.
Our bongo was converted when we bought it: one row of seat taken out in the middle to place the little cupboard/gas cooker/sink, and we still have the original back row of seat.
We always slept upstairs, and it's great, except for the "if one needs to get up, everybody has to get up", which is ok when it might only mean the occasionally "I really need to go to the bathroom" trip in the middle of the night.
Now, I thought about going away with a baby (if we go between May and September, he/she will be 3-6 months), I am first wondering where will she/he sleep.
The first options are: back seat downstairs with moses basket? Travel cot downstairs? Yes, but what happens if baby is still feeding at night? Is it practical? Temperature issue? Experience?
Or baby could sleep upstairs with me so I can feed without a fuss? But where would my husband sleep? In a tent? That doesn't seem very practical for one night.
Obviously, it will depend of the baby, and we won't know until we get to that time... And it might be too late to sell the Bongo? Best is probably spring no? Or after the summer?
When the baby gets older, I imagine he/she can sleep all night and there is no more problem for sleeping downstairs.
Of course, I am also wondering whether all this will be any fun for any of us. If the trip is only stressful, then why do it in the first place? The baby is too young to really get the benefit (different with an older child)... so we have to be the one enjoying the night away.
Your experience is valuable to me. I am thinking "Sell and we'll see in 3-4 years if we want to buy something else." but we like our Bongo, and I like going away in it and my husband too. I'd love to be able to take the minimum with us and be relaxed and go away for a few weekends next summer, but I am afraid this is unrealistic
Also, last question, I've read about a "Cat flap" for the bongo, but can't find any picture or description of what it means.
Thank you and sorry for the long message!